Don’t Develop Emotions in an FWB Relationship

An eternal question in maintaining a FWB relationship is: how do you avoid emotional development? This problem is very reasonable. The combination of sex and emotion makes things more complicated. After all, sex triggers the production of oxytocin and dopamine in the brain, two chemicals that promote intimacy and create a warm, loving and amiable feeling. They create an addictive impulse. Although some people are very good at distinguishing their feelings, most people don't think so. Even those with good intentions will find that they have met their own NSA unconsciously

"God, how can I take her to my family?" The key to avoiding this situation and keeping your relationship at a casual level is to keep the boundaries of agreement and keep things casual. It's much easier to keep a FWB when you're all trying to avoid blurring the boundaries of your relationship.

How did you do it?

Restrictive behavior. Yes, I know: FWB's interests are key. But that's where most people make mistakes. The more mistakes you make, the more dopamine you ingest; the more dopamine you inject, the more it clears the line between friendship and love. Although this sex can be amazing. If you really don't want to develop a relationship in an NSA relationship, you should set and follow more restrictions. This limitation should be different from person to person. Some people can keep it every other week, which is no problem. Others need to limit once a month, which may feel like a ridiculous limit, but this distance helps prevent you from getting lost in a hurry. In addition, taking time between accolades can make tension and accumulated feelings more delicious when they are rewarded.

There is no "relationship" behavior. It means no flirting or romantic dates. These feelings may be small, but they are an integral part of a romantic relationship. Your brain responds to the behavior of your body; acting like a couple, you are more likely to feel like a couple. If you want to be a strict affair dating, then you need to avoid the romantic framework, which also means that you two can't sleep in, travel on weekends or go on holidays. After all, time and proximity are part of the beginning of our decline. The longer you two stay? The more likely the line is to be crossed, someone will grasp the feeling.

Keep the Platonic conversation. Some people in fwbs are trying to limit access, which is a mistake. You should be friends. Friends talk to each other. They joked everywhere, went out to play, exchanged stupid memes, and laughed at the shit they saw on twitter. What you don't want to do, however, is to keep on having those sweet chats or cute little tunes. Flirting can be fun, a little sexy flirting can make sex more enjoyable But you also have the risk of being obsessed. The more you act like a couple, the more likely you are to leave a mark on each other and start to get annoyed at the limits of your relationship.